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Maybe women shouldn’t be alone with men in the office.For years that has been the refrain of how to avoid being sexualyl harassed in the work place. Along with dress codes that prevent women of all ages from wearing skirts, dresses, tops, pants or even shoes that could be seen as provoking to men. Despite these so called preventative measures surveys have found that nearly 1 in 3 women from ages 18-34 have been sexual harassed in the work place. It would be easy to look back on 2017 with anger. It was a hard year. However, through all that it was a big year for women who had been victims of sexual harassment. It seemed like every time you opened the news or social media, harassment had a spot in the headlines. From Forbes “This is the end of patriarchy” “the male domination of humanity”, to twitter, whether good or bad, this year shown a bright light on the realities of sexual assault. The year of the  #MeToo phenomenon, spurred women all over the world to speak out about their experiences. Surly it’s a good thing that Harvey Weinstein is gone and that the potential Harvey Weinstein’s will maybe think twice before harassing a women. But is it really “the end of patriarchy”? Look around.The answer is no. It’s not the end of patriarchy. The 45th President of the United States, was caught on tape discussing the inappropriate things he has said and done to women, brushed it off as locker room talk and was still elected. Politics has tried to control women rights over their bodies, stopped monitoring the wage gap, and made it more difficult for them to receive health care they need. The patriarchy is still strong. However, #metoo is toppling patriarchs. Harvey Weinstein, Matt Lauer, Charlie Rose, Bill O’Reilly, Kevin Spacey, the list goes on and on. Even with all of this the #Metoo movement  was never about the Harvey Weinstein’s, the media loved that angle cause of the gory details, that sold their stories. In fact, it was never about the men at all. It is about women. The process of regular women speaking out about their experiences with harassment, discrimination and assault, was, and is, about a systemic cultural problem that prevents women from having equal opportunities in the workplace. Maybe the massive outpouring of shared trauma didn’t develop into a political movement but that’s not to say it won’t. Toppling a few powerful abusers is a good tangible result to start. Hopefully it’s the beginning of a collective decision to stop tolerating the abuse that has been around for years. This choice will slowly lead to bigger changes in everything, from policy to leadership and even in culture.These ” silence breakers”, as Time magazine dubbed them, cry against individual harassers and the push for gender equality across the board may seem mundane, especially now. When Donald Trump is leading the way as head of the machine, it’s tempting to imagine the machine itself having bad hair— and that to defeat the Harvey Weinstein’s of the world is to win. But the patriarchy is bigger than the patriarch.Since Mr. Trump’s election, women have been trying hard to fight on both fronts. The #MeToo campaign, Women’s March on Washington, black female voters helping send an Alabama Democrat to the Senate, and an increasing number of female candidates seeking office in elections across the country.That cultural shift will be critical to winning the coming battle against sexual assault. #MeToo will continue to topple patriarchs, and while the patriarchy continues to win the day, the day is coming when that might always be the case. Maybe men shouldn’t be left alone with women in the office, because women are speaking out, and they are coming for the patriarchs and the patriarchy.